Our Story

Welcome to Bashert Coaching, where we believe that every couple deserves a strong, loving, and fulfilling relationship. My name is Elly Miller, and I founded Bashert Coaching after witnessing firsthand the struggles that frum couples are facing. I saw how easily relationships can become stagnant and complacent, with both partners feeling unheard and unseen.

 

But I also know that it's never too late to rewrite your story. My own journey began with a painful realization: after 15 years of marriage, I was living in a state of complacency, holding onto a preconceived notion of what marriage should be, rather than confronting the reality of my own flaws and biases.

 

Through intensive work, I learned to let go of judgment and embrace my imperfections. This transformation wasn't just personal - it profoundly impacted my relationship with my wife and my children. I discovered a newfound sense of empathy, understanding, and connection.

 

But I didn't stop there. I wanted to help other couples break free from the cycle of blame and complacency, and build a foundation of trust, safety, and intimacy. That's why I founded Bashert Coaching.

 

At Bashert Coaching, we believe that every couple has the potential to build a strong, loving, and fulfilling relationship. We believe that imperfection is not something to be feared, but something to be embraced. And we believe that with the right tools, support, and guidance, every couple can rewrite their own story and build a marriage that truly thrives.

 

Join us on this journey, and let's rewrite your story together."